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The case of neediness and mis-communication

I have something good to announce. This time round, it seems like we have a good ending and conclusion. It is just weird that the marriage counselling session didn't help but we ended up enlisting the help with one of our friends to resolve the problem. And....we are not communicating properly. Eg. I told him that I didn't trust him because of his past actions. And I call and message him, with him thinking that I was calling only to check up on him (but in fact, I called him because I miss him) and he took it the wrong way. Then he got pissed at me since he thought I was checking on him, and it resulted in me being pissed too because I called him because I missed him and he reacted in a negative way, leading me to think that he just doesn't love me anymore..and it goes on. With that being said, his friend concluded that I am a needy girl, and PL got the wrong impression that I am independent, so he can just leave me alone for long periods of time (which was wrong btw)

Spending a weekend together

After all these quarrels, we managed to spend a peaceful weekend together. Xinyi and Constance actually helped in the conciliation process. Friday evening was unexpectedly spent with his ex-colleagues at some sumiyaki restaurant at Star Vista, and him staying overnight at my place. Sat was spent nua-ing around in the house till his CU5 assessment time (and I managed to cook lunch for him :)) The place was at the old Republic Poly site and he brought me around for a viewing of how it looks like when he was studying there. (Frankly, I was a little apprehensive of that place since it was the place where he and his ex spent the most time at together) But as Constance said, I am a glutton for pain as I still want to know about it. Damn curiosity. After that, we went over to the SAF changi chalet where Boon Hui was celebrating his gf's birthday. The atmosphere was a little awkward as we all have not met for a long time. But oh well...It just makes me more certain that I don't w